Being A Sore...Winner?

No one wants to be a "sore loser" - a term we've all heard since childhood.  It describes a person who is hurt because they lost.

I'm in the midst of a big move - daily lugging heavy boxes (thousands of books!) and other assorted heavy items - and I've been sore every day for the past 3 weeks.  As the muscles throughout my body scream in revolt, something occurred to me:

Have you ever thought of anyone being a "sore winner"? 

Winners achieve as a result of hard work.  Hard work stretches your abilities.  This is why winners who are consistently successful are constantly striving to grow and improve - keeping them on top.

The natural consequence of pushing your capabilities is pain.  It is a pain that most people are not willing to endure.  When you talk with successful people, they will admit that the sacrifices made to achieve their goals hurt, but it was worth it. 

Every winner is sore, you just won't hear them whining about it.  Even when they (temporarily) lose, they understand that it is part of the progression (investment) towards ultimately winning. An investment that requires commitment, courage, and tenacity.  It is these three things that allow a winner to face the inevitable discomfort and gut through what it takes to realize their goals.

So, in the midst of all the challenges you are facing today - are you willing to be a sore...winner?

Think about it.  But more importantly, do something about it...today!

Are You Living In The REAL World?

As we develop and grow our career, most people fall into a trap:

1. We tend to create a comfort zone that makes our workday easier.
2. Your Comfort Zone is typically full of people who think and act like you.  When others are comfortable with your Comfort Zone, they tend to not rock the boat either - meaning little confrontation or accountability.

So, what are the natural consequences? 

1. Being comfortable means coasting.  Coasting means going (slowly?) downhill.
2. Lack of brutally honest feedback means you are operating in a vacuum - disconnected with what's really happening.  All decisions are a result of informed choices.  Those choices are only as good as the information.

So, what's the solution?  We need to seek out sources of brutal honesty - by getting R.E.A.L.:

Review - What aspects of your current workday are you depending solely on information others give you about a situation?  Make it a point to experience that (customer experience, employee experience) personally as often as possible.

Engage - Create ways to connect with various types of people throughout your organization - in a way that cannot be predicted!  This will prevent you from being "handled" so that people are telling you what they think you want to hear.

Align - Consider your organizations Values and Vision.  Align your actions with those elements (in relation to your industry environment and the ultimate customer experience you desire) instead of only the immediate political circumstances you deal with close in.

Leverage - Use the support you have from the many different perspectives of your boss/peers/team to spark making the best FULLY INFORMED decisions.  Create an accountability of open communication (like posting your commitments/results status so everyone can see them as things progress) with the opportunity for everyone to comment freely.

Focusing on creating a REAL world  dynamic will keep you from staying in a make-believe world - and making dis-connected decisions that make you (and your operation) vulnerable.

Think about it.  But more importantly, do something about it...today!

Agile or Fragile?

The rate of change has increased dramatically over the past years.  Every day, it seems that another professional becomes the victim of being too-inflexible - and, therefore, becomes obsolete. 

People who don't actively stretch their ability to adapt and deal with ambiguity become fragile and break under the constant pressure of change.  The only way to thrive (not just survive) is to be agile enough to successfully negotiate the twists and turns that Life throws at you.
So, how can you accomplish this?

The most successful people have an interesting habit: They keep their "change muscles" flexible by purposefully attempting different things on a daily basis.

It can be as simple as driving a different way to work every so often.  Or going to a bookstore (or online) and reading a magazine/article on a topic you normally wouldn't ever choose to read.  This keeps your mind practiced in the way of absorbing and "filing" new/different information on a regular basis.

Or, take it to the next level by engaging a colleague/friend in a action-based "adventure" of something neither one of you have done before.  Take turns planning the "surprise" and benefit from adjusting on the fly.  Interact with people from a different culture.  Primarily use your non-dominant hand for a day.  Tackle an experience on your bucket list.  Whatever it is, challenge each other by testing your comfort zones and expanding your perspective on a myriad of topics/experiences you deem important.

The important thing when you "do new" is to keep it fun.  Make the challenge of CHANGE your new comfort zone!

And you'll never be fragile - or as vulnerable - again.

Think about it.  But more importantly do something about it...today!

What's On Your Short List?

Do you ever feel like you are busy every minute of the day, and still don't have time to do things that are truly important?

One thing consistently successful leaders do differently and better than anyone else is taking action on the right (most important) things.  How do they tame the distractions that plague the rest of us?

They create their "short list".

It's a simple two-part process.  The first step is creating your personal short list of the most important non-negotiables in your life.

• Values (The key driving forces of your life?)
• Standards (The clear line that defines what is truly UNacceptable)
• Goals (The absolutely MUST do things on your bucket list?)
• Relationships (Who are the most important "long-term" people in your life?)
• Belongings (what would you grab if your house caught on fire?)
• Activities (What pastimes are the most important to you for optimal physical/emotional/spiritual/mental health?)

Once you identify your short list(s), it becomes very clear what to say "yes" to - and just as importantly, what to say "no" to.  Both of which keep you from wasting time and energy - allowing you to be the most productive on the things you care most about. 

The next step is to use your list as a guide in creating your schedule.  Start with plugging in the non-negotiable priorities on your list first.  Then, if you have extra time/energy, fill in the rest with the next most important things.  When you are done with your time (you can't manufacture more of it), you say "no".

Yes, there are consequences for saying no, but the most successful people share that the temporary discomfort created by that transition always gives way to a high-performance, more aligned life of integrity.

How do you prefer to invest your life - in the things that you are passionate about, or settle for less?  Nothing will change unless YOU change your actions.

Think about it.  But more importantly, do something about it...today!

The Medicine Can Become The Poison

Life isn't perfect.  Sometimes mistakes are made.  If we aren't adequately committed to doing the right things to be healthy, we can become ill - feeling weak, miserable, and generally creating sub-par performance in everything we do.  In times such as these, the right medicine can help us get better.  When appropriate, this is a good thing to improve our well-being.  This also holds true (metaphorically) for organizations. 

The problem comes when the person (or organization) stops trying to take care of themselves because it's easier to depend (too much) on the medicine to make them feel healthy...instead of doing what it takes to genuinely be healthy.

In times such as these, the medicine can actually become like a poison - slowly undermining the person's ability to function effectively.  The body develops a resistance to the medicine, which causes the effectiveness of the medicine to diminish and the symptoms to get worse...unless the "dosage" is increased. 

Just like an addict of any kind, when the body expects a "medicine" to help it be happy/healthy, the natural consequences is a downward cycle.  It always continues to get worse until the person a) dies or b) decides to take on the hard work required to get "naturally" happy/healthy...by eating right, exercising, and practicing other good habits.  Enabling people can actually kill them!

The same holds true for organizations.  When a "medicine" (bailouts, subsidies, lack of competition, etc.) manipulates the company's circumstances and the business begins to depend on that support to simply survive every day, the medicine becomes a poison that will continue to undermine the health of that organization until it goes out of business or changes direction.  Building disciplined leadership, accountability to non-negotiables, engagement, integrity, and excellence throughout an organization is hard work - but it always results in success.

Here's the key: Ignoring a problem will not make you safer from it.  In business and in our personal lives, sometimes - if we really care enough - we have to show TOUGH love.

In what ways is your organization dependant?  Are you "coasting" through your workdays or actively pursuing improvement?  What would it take to conduct an "intervention"?

Think about it.  But more importantly, do something about it...today!

Some Complaints Show You're On Course

Complaints are a common occurrence in business - and in Life.  Too often, however, we make the mistake of compromising our actions because of the opinions of others.  Someone gets upset and starts whining about what you are doing (or not doing)...at what point do you "cave in" and go along with their request?

There are two considerations when making this decision:  1. Does the "complainer" have your best interest at heart? and 2. You, and only you, are in control of your decisions/actions.

First, there is a group of people that you "serve" - whether customers, employees, or friends/acquaintances.  When dealing with this group, ask yourself whether or not their agenda is for YOUR (or your company's) mutual well-being.  If not, disregard them - and anything else that doesn't directly serve you or your mission.  The reason they are complaining is for THEIR benefit, not yours.  If they care more about themselves than your sustainable good health, then they are a "cancer" (an organism that sucks life out of you and causes damage as a result), so remove them - or, at least, marginalize their contact with you.  You will have a far better future without them.

In the same way, you'll hear your competition howl about how they don't like something you are doing.  Unless the complaint is about something genuinely unethical or illegal, the hidden reason for their complaint is that your action is hurting their business.  Good!  (Remember: They are motivated by you losing!)  Upset "enemies" are not a problem - leading your organization by what pacifies your competition is a BIG problem!  If you are upsetting your competition it is an indicator that you are doing something that is improving your business and/or industry - and distancing yourself from their attempts to take market share from you!

Secondly, don't make the mistake of thinking others control your decisions.  Yes, they may have influence, but only YOU dictate the rules of engagement!  If you find yourself consistently doing things that are unhealthy to you, then YOU are the one responsible for making the unhealthy decision.  Catering to the whims of others and allowing those who don't care enough about you to have your best interest at heart is a sure-fire path to pain, suffering, and regret. 

So view complaints differently.  They are simply information and not always bad.  In fact, they may actually show you that you are doing something right!

Think about it.  But more importantly, do something about it...today!

It's Showtime...At The Oil Change Garage?!

Have you ever gone someplace and had an experience that was so unexpectedly enjoyable, you couldn't wait to tell people about it?

That's exactly the kind of response you want consistently from your customers.

What is required to create this kind of experience?  Exceed expectations with pleasant surprises.

I just had such an experience at, of all places, an oil change garage! 

So, what is the typical expectation when getting your oil changed at a garage?  That oily/dirty garage workers drain the old oil and fill new oil into your car correctly for a fair price. That they are competent and efficient.  Pretty simple, right?

I just bought a used car and wanted to get the fluids changed.  I decided to go to the same place noted by the previous oil change sticker in the window.  I had never been to a Valvoline Express Care station, but thought they might be able to provide some additional insight about the maintenance history of my car.

When I arrived, I had the typical expectations.  However, they were radically exceeded from the moment I drove into the parking lot.  Here's what my experience was like: 

An attendant walked out to warmly greet me as I began to park in a parking space - urging me to pull directly into the repair bay.  He and the rest of the team were dressed in a clean/professional uniform.  He guided me into the bay and they began a non-stop banter and flow of information.  It was more like Seattle's Pike Street Fish Market (Google it) than any auto garage I've ever seen.  Shouts of "Showtime, Bay Three!", "Electric a go!", "Thank you, sir!" reverberated across the garage as four separate specialists rushed around conducting a full diagnostic of lights/signals and other fluids prior to changing my oil.  They brought up my car in their computer system (next to my car), shared the extensive service history, and provided insights about the options for service now and in the future.  They provided a full-service oil change with all the bells and whistles (including payment and receipt) without me having to get out of my car. 

In less than 9 minutes.

Yes, I was impressed.  But even though it cost a few dollars more, it was way more than worth it.

And plenty of other people know about them now.  I'm now an unpaid promoter for Valvoline Express Care.  All because they spent the effort on things that didn't cost any extra to provide buzz-worthy service.

So, what low/no cost things can you do to create a "Showtime" experience for your customers...and get them buzzing?

Think about it.  But more importantly, do something about it...today!